From GeneaMusings: Come on, everybody,
join in and accept the mission and execute it with precision. Here's your
chance to sit on Genea-Santa's lap (virtually) and tell him your Christmas
traditions.
Pauleen (Cassmob) who
writes the Family history across the
seas blog started a Christmas meme in 2012 - see Deck the Halls -
2012 Christmas GeneaMeme. So we will use that for SNGF
this week (since very few readers did it in past years!):
1)
Copy and paste the meme questions into your blog or word processor, and
then answer the questions. You could use short statements, long
paragraphs or provide a link to one of your earlier posts.
2)
Tell us about your meme answers in a blog post of your own, in a comment
to this post, or on Facebook, Google+ or Twitter.
3)
Be sure to leave a comment on Pauleen's blog post about your entry in
this Christmas 2016 Geneameme. She'll be surprised!
Here's mine
(questions in green, answers
in red):
THE 2012 CHRISTMAS GENEAMEME (IN 2016)
1.
Do you have any special Xmas traditions in
your family? Traditionally it has been Christmas at my parents’ house. I was
saying the other day that this will be only the second time in my life that I
haven’t spent at least part of the day at their house and the first without
either of my parents.
As a child I would get up Christmas morning and see what Santa had
brought me. Was it peculiar to my house that Santa never wrapped his gifts, but
rather just left them under the tree? Usually some of the family would gather
there by late morning and we’d sit down sometime between 12 and 1 and have our
big dinner. After the food was taken care of and the dishes done, we got to
open our presents that we exchanged with each other.
As an adult it was much the same, however, I was the one arriving
there and in later years, the person that got most if not all of the dinner
prepared. Mom would still want to contribute and help with things, but as she
got older it was more difficult for her and I would try to relieve her of that
work.
2.
Is church attendance an important part of your
Christmas celebrations and do you go the evening before or on Xmas Day? As a child
we didn’t go often. My Dad was not much with going to church as I remembered,
however, before I was born, the family was very involved. As an adult I go to
the Christmas Eve service and in recent years have been part of the Christmas
“pageant.” It isn’t an actual pageant as it is a small congregation of mostly
older people. We do the reading about Christmas Eve and as carols are sung
between verses, people take the appropriate figurines up and place them in the
manger.
3.
Did/do you or your children/grandchildren
believe in Santa? Of course! I still believe. As I got older and came to realize the
myth behind Santa, he was explained to me. For little children many of our
concepts are hard to understand. However, they can see such things as love and
generosity in Santa’s annual trip from the North Pole. It is the concrete
manifestation of these concepts that is Santa and, therefore, he is real,
especially in the eyes of the little children.
4.
Do you go carolling in your neighbourhood? I saw a
comic the other day where one of the main characters sings so badly he was paid
not to carol. That would be me. Unfortunately, nobody ever does come through
with the money!
5.
What’s your favourite Christmas music? I like best
the children’s songs and other upbeat traditional songs about Christmas. All of
the hymns are beautiful, but I most enjoy the fun ones.
6.
What’s your favourite Christmas carol? Go Tell It
On The Mountain. (I think that’s considered a carol).
7.
Do you have a special Xmas movie/book you like
to watch/read? The Grinch Who Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss. Yes, I’m a child at
heart. Years ago, after my Dad died, I was having trouble getting into the
Christmas spirit and decorating the tree. I put the DVD of this on and went
ahead decorating singing along and laughing at his antics. It is now a
Christmas tradition in my house.
8.
Does your family do individual gifts, gifts
for littlies only, Secret Santa (aka
Kris Kringle)? We don’t do much with gifts anymore. The family is spread out so that it
is impossible to know what anyone might want or even like. I just exchange
gifts with my husband now.
9.
Is your main Christmas meal indoors or
outdoors, at home or away? Indoors. Traditionally
at my parents. This year just my husband and I. We’ll be getting together with
one of my brothers and some of his family the day after for a meal.
10.
What do you eat as your main course for the
Christmas meal? A nice meal. What is actually consists of varies over the years.
Either turkey, ham, or roast beef usually with many side dishes and of course,
dessert.
11.
Do you have a special recipe you use for
Xmas? The menu varies so, that I don’t really have any special recipes. We almost
always have the holiday salad that I mentioned at Thanksgiving. There are some
cookies that Mom always used to make at Christmas time. I’m making some of them
this year and will probably make a few more later in the winter.
12.
Does Christmas pudding feature on the Xmas
menu? Is it your recipe or one you inherited? We've never
had Christmas pudding.
13.
Do you have any other special Christmas foods?
What are they? The cookies I mentioned. Cream cheese spritz, cherry slices, pecan
Tassies and sugar cookies were almost always around. Right now there are cherry
slices and Snickerdoodles at my house.
14.
Do you give home-made food/craft for gifts at
Christmas? I haven’t in recent years; however, my Mom was
likely to have at least a couple crafted items as presents for people. Knitted
items, sewn, beaded or just about anything else. Many years our tree was
covered with ornaments that her and I had made.
15.
Do you return to your family for Xmas or vice
versa? In previous years it was my parents’ house. This
year some of us will be gathering at my brother’s.
16.
Is your Christmas celebrated differently from
your childhood ones? If yes, how does it differ? This is
definitely a year of change.
17.
How do you celebrate Xmas with your friends?
Lunch? Pre-Xmas outings? Drop-ins? Sending
Christmas Cards and talking with far-flung friends on Facebook mostly. When I worked in
the library we would have a staff party just before the Christmas break. The
best ones were when we all pitched in and brought something rather than having
a catered luncheon.
18.
Do you decorate your house with lights? A
little or a lot? That is too difficult for us the way our lawn is
and with a steep pitched roof. We do have a small tree on our front porch that
we plug in on evenings that we remember.
19.
Is your neighbourhood a “Xmas lights” tour
venue? There are a few people that decorate with lights,
but not too many. The suburbs tend to do a lot more than the city it seems.
20.
Does your family attend Carols by Candlelight
singalongs/concerts? Where? No. It’s
usually too cold! I get chilled very easily, so not something that I find
enjoyable.
21.
Have any of your Christmases been spent
camping (unlikely for our northern-hemisphere friends)? Yes.
Christmas 1987 was spent in Ocala Forest. Between semesters at college that
year, my parents and I got in our camper and headed south for Florida. We spent
Christmas in a campground outside of Ocala and attended a potluck gathering
there as our main meal.
22.
Is Christmas spent at your home, with family
or at a holiday venue? At home, although I thought
about going to a restaurant this year instead of cooking.
23.
Do you have snow for Christmas where you
live? Upstate New York? We sometimes have blizzards.
24.
Do you have a Christmas tree every year? Always. One
year when I was too sick to put a regular one up, I bought a small, 3-foot
tree. That’s the one that is on the porch now.
25.
Is your Christmas tree a live tree
(potted/harvested) or an imitation? I vaguely
remember having a real tree when I was a small child. Then Mom discovered that
she was allergic to a mold that grows on the cut stump. Dad went out and bought
an artificial one and that’s what we’ve had ever since. Even after I lived on
my own I’ve continued because when I’m near a real one I get congested awful
and suspect I probably have the same allergy that Mom did.
26.
Do you have special Xmas tree decorations? A few are
special. We have one that commemorates our first Christmas after we were
married. I also like to add German stars to our tree. These are folded paper
decorations that I learned to make as a teenager. They are also reflective of
my husband’s heritage.
27.
Which is more important to your family,
Christmas or Thanksgiving? I’ve always
preferred Thanksgiving. However, I don’t think one has ever been more important
than the other.
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